Live from your identity.
Not your attractions.

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We empower men experiencing same-sex attraction to
live a life of purpose and possibility.

Find your voice

Honor your story

Chart your future

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Attractions are experiences,
Not declarations.

Are you tired of your same-sex attractions telling you who you are, what to do, and what’s possible?

Fortunately…

You’re in charge!

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Let us help you find your voice, honor your story, and chart your future.

Instead of wondering who you are and where life will take you,

You’ll become someone who lives with purpose and possibility.

You will “Own Your Identity.”

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Step 1: Get Clarity

Take the Clarity Quiz
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Step 2: Get a Framework

Watch the free masterclass
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Step 3: Get Transformation

Choose your next step

Take action to reclaim power over attractions.
Choose the option that is best for you:

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On-Demand Course

Reclaim Power Over Attractions

Best for: Men who desire structured growth at their own pace

You’ll get:

  • 7 Video Modules
  • Tools and Worksheets 
  • Monthly group coaching / Q&A session (lifetime access)
  • Opportunity to add 1-on-1 sessions
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Why choose this: Flexible, foundational growth with lifetime tools and monthly support

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Group Coaching

Journey with Like-Minded Men

Best for: Men ready to grow with depth, structure, and shared presence

You’ll get:

  • Ongoing community with a small cohort and larger alumni network
  • 12-week in-depth coursework and immersive group sessions
  • Two 1-on-1 coaching sessions
  • Lifetime access to on-demand courses and masterclasses
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Why choose this: Exclusive, safe community, united growth empowered by identity in Christ

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1-on-1 Coaching

Begin a Coaching Relationship

Best for: Men who must accelerate their growth

You’ll get:

  • A custom syllabus built around your needs 
  • Daily messaging support
  • Tools and assignments
  • Virtual coaching sessions
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Why choose this: Personalized, private, real-time transformation

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What men are saying about the Own Your Identity approach:

Jason’s character and compassion, combined with his practical approach, has brought me a new vision of myself and what’s possible.

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— Chuck

Jason has a natural gift. His wisdom and guidance have brought hope into places where I once felt confusion or despair.

5
— Joshua

The unique outcome of Jason’s work moves well beyond SSA to help men stop burying their talents.

5
— Shane

Jason seamlessly ties his experiences to the profound love of Jesus, and reminds us of our true identity in Him.

5
— John

Jason, you have helped rewrite something inside me. I saw a glimpse of who I’m becoming — something I didn’t know I needed.

5
— Jay

Jason helps me reframe the experience of SSA — seeing it as something that can propel me forward rather than hold me down.

5
— James

Jason’s work is what the SSA recovery world has needed for decades! He knows what he’s talking about. SSA doesn’t have to be a life sentence.

5
— David

Jason leads with curiosity, guiding men into deeper questions and a healing journey.

5
— Lane

Jason puts us in a power position over SSA. Navigating it puts me on a path to a closer relationship with Jesus.

5
— Gary

Own Your Identity has opened my mind and heart in ways I could not on my own.

5
— Andrew

Jason’s approach allows me to truly ‘own’ my identity, with Christ at the center.

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— Jason

My name is Jason Mellard, a Certified High Performance Coach, Husband Material Coach, and founder of Own Your Identity. I used to believe my same-sex attractions were bigger than me and my dreams. I’ve learned that’s not the case.

If you are allowing your unwanted attractions to hold you back from the life you truly desire, I would love to hear your story, see your vision, and help you chart a future of purpose and possibility. Click on the button below to schedule a time.

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