What are You Staring at?

What are You Staring at?

What brings you to your knees? Is it the weight of your sin—the shame, the regret, the feeling that you’ve fallen too far? Or is it something greater? Could it be the overwhelming presence of a holy and loving God who sees you—not just your sin, but who you truly are...
Stay Uncomfortable

Stay Uncomfortable

When my dad entered the gay lifestyle, he felt relief. He didn’t have to live in the tension of same-sex attraction and a traditional lifestyle. He no longer had to worry if people discovered his attractions. He wasn’t hiding anymore. His fear of missing out was gone....
It’s just too much.

It’s just too much.

Fifteen year old Timothy sits on his bed staring at a DM from a guy he doesn’t know. It reads “You’re cute. Can we chat?” Thoughts flood his mind.  Yes, I want to chat. I really do.  I’m tired of fighting these feelings.  Why do I want this so bad? If my parents...
Was he the most attractive man ever?

Was he the most attractive man ever?

I choose to embrace mystery but am careful to lean into the ones that serve me most. Last summer, I walked toward the pool at the YMCA and came upon the most attractive man I had ever seen. At least I think he was. I’ll never know.  He had just finished his swim and...
Life With and Without My Dad

Life With and Without My Dad

I am creating this post to honor my dad, honor me, and honor our story together. I’ll highlight the impact of abuse, the power of forgiveness, and the sovereignty of God. I am glad to invite you into more of my story. Whether you have been deeply hurt or have hurt...