by Jason Mellard | Dec 13, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
When we talk about masculinity, certain qualities tend to get most of the attention: strength, leadership, courage, protection. Those matter. But there’s another quality—one I believe is foundational—that often gets overlooked: Creativity. Not creativity in the sense...
by Jason Mellard | Nov 21, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
Here’s an idea that’s been growing in me for a while — something I’ve lived and wrestled with, and something I believe can change the way you see yourself as a man. I call it Participating in Masculinity. Because masculinity isn’t just something you possess....
by Jason Mellard | Oct 9, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
Let me tell you this: living aligned with your values 100% of the time is easier than 99%. That 1% difference is those moments where you’re like, “Well, maybe just this once,” or “It’s not that bad, right?” I’ve been there. Instead of watching porn, I’ve...
by Jason Mellard | Oct 1, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
What do you turn to when you want to feel alive, strong, Inspired, settled, connected, or safe? For so many of us, it’s easy to reach for something external—porn, social media, Netflix, food—hoping it will give us that quick hit of the feeling we’re chasing. But...
by Jason Mellard | Sep 3, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
Have you ever had one of those moments where all you wanted was for someone to notice you? To choose you? To say, “You matter. You’re enough. I see you.” I had one of those moments recently, I was going about my morning, and all of a sudden, that longing appeared in a...
by Jason Mellard | Aug 30, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
In late spring, we had one of those hot, bright Texas days where the sun feels like it’s pressing down. My five-year-old son, Lane, was out on the soccer field, running after the ball. He was sluggish at first—he’s always been more sensitive to the heat than the other...
