by Jason Mellard | Aug 16, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
And I wasn’t in my head. It was great! Here’s the scene: We were at a pool party at the gym. My wife, who’s a trainer, had brought us along for an event for employees and their families. The weather was perfect, the food was great, and there was this fun, lighthearted...
by Jason Mellard | Jun 29, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
Have you ever felt like your SSA experiences were running the show—like they had all the power? I want to talk about something that trips so many of us up: the felt experience of unwanted same-sex attraction—a mix of physical sensations, romantic feelings, and thought...
by Jason Mellard | Feb 20, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
Images of guys still draw my attention. I recently typed “man lying in bed” into Adobe iStock to find a blog feature photo, expecting the results to be PG. Suggestive imagery was scattered in the results. I wanted to linger but closed the browser. I was bummed that I...