by Jason Mellard | Dec 13, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
When we talk about masculinity, certain qualities tend to get most of the attention: strength, leadership, courage, protection. Those matter. But there’s another quality—one I believe is foundational—that often gets overlooked: Creativity. Not creativity in the sense...
by Jason Mellard | Nov 21, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
Here’s an idea that’s been growing in me for a while — something I’ve lived and wrestled with, and something I believe can change the way you see yourself as a man. I call it Participating in Masculinity. Because masculinity isn’t just something you possess....
by Jason Mellard | Oct 9, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
Let me tell you this: living aligned with your values 100% of the time is easier than 99%. That 1% difference is those moments where you’re like, “Well, maybe just this once,” or “It’s not that bad, right?” I’ve been there. Instead of watching porn, I’ve...
by Jason Mellard | Sep 3, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
Have you ever had one of those moments where all you wanted was for someone to notice you? To choose you? To say, “You matter. You’re enough. I see you.” I had one of those moments recently, I was going about my morning, and all of a sudden, that longing appeared in a...
by Jason Mellard | Aug 30, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
In late spring, we had one of those hot, bright Texas days where the sun feels like it’s pressing down. My five-year-old son, Lane, was out on the soccer field, running after the ball. He was sluggish at first—he’s always been more sensitive to the heat than the other...
