by Jason Mellard | May 23, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
Have you ever noticed how quickly your mind can turn a simple observation into a full-blown story? You see an attractive guy, and before you know it, your brain is off to the races: He’s better than me. I’m not good enough. I need his approval. I hope he notices me....
by Jason Mellard | May 17, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
Dear Younger Jeff, Here you are at 11 years old when, for the first time, you are feeling drawn to every part of your friend Mark: his body, personality, mind and soul. You want to be just like Mark. You want him to like you. I get it. You wonder how you will make it...
by Jason Mellard | May 12, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
For too long, the world has told men that gentleness and sensitivity are weaknesses. That to be a “real man,” you have to be tough, stoic, and unyielding. But the truth is: gentleness and sensitivity are not the opposite of strength—they’re the foundation of it. And...
by Jason Mellard | May 12, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
In my Own Your Identity coaching course, we identify our longings. While doing this, a participant crafted this prayer to lift to God—a prayer for masculine belonging and gave me permission to share it with you. I pray it will be a blessing and perhaps give words to...
by Jason Mellard | Apr 28, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
What brings you to your knees? Is it the weight of your sin—the shame, the regret, the feeling that you’ve fallen too far? Or is it something greater? Could it be the overwhelming presence of a holy and loving God who sees you—not just your sin, but who you truly are...
by Jason Mellard | Apr 20, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
When my dad entered the gay lifestyle, he felt relief. He didn’t have to live in the tension of same-sex attraction and a traditional lifestyle. He no longer had to worry if people discovered his attractions. He wasn’t hiding anymore. His fear of missing out was gone....
