by Jason Mellard | Dec 13, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
When we talk about masculinity, certain qualities tend to get most of the attention: strength, leadership, courage, protection. Those matter. But there’s another quality—one I believe is foundational—that often gets overlooked: Creativity. Not creativity in the sense...
by Jason Mellard | Oct 9, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
Let me tell you this: living aligned with your values 100% of the time is easier than 99%. That 1% difference is those moments where you’re like, “Well, maybe just this once,” or “It’s not that bad, right?” I’ve been there. Instead of watching porn, I’ve...
by Jason Mellard | Apr 28, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
What brings you to your knees? Is it the weight of your sin—the shame, the regret, the feeling that you’ve fallen too far? Or is it something greater? Could it be the overwhelming presence of a holy and loving God who sees you—not just your sin, but who you truly are...
by Jason Mellard | Mar 30, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
The Cycling Shorts When I was a kid, my dad loved cycling. He’d suit up in those tight cycling shorts, and one day, he wanted me to wear them too. I didn’t want to—I mean, I was a kid, and those shorts felt embarrassing—but I didn’t know how to say no. So, I put them...
by Jason Mellard | Jan 21, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
I was ten years old. With the helicopter blades still whirring, the President walked out, hand on his head, to give me the best news. “I’ve come to invite you to join me for an award ceremony in your honor,” he said loudly. I pointed to my chest. “Me?” My...
