by Jason Mellard | Dec 13, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
When we talk about masculinity, certain qualities tend to get most of the attention: strength, leadership, courage, protection. Those matter. But there’s another quality—one I believe is foundational—that often gets overlooked: Creativity. Not creativity in the sense...
by Jason Mellard | Nov 21, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
Here’s an idea that’s been growing in me for a while — something I’ve lived and wrestled with, and something I believe can change the way you see yourself as a man. I call it Participating in Masculinity. Because masculinity isn’t just something you possess....
by Jason Mellard | May 12, 2025 | Blog, Same-Sex Attraction
For too long, the world has told men that gentleness and sensitivity are weaknesses. That to be a “real man,” you have to be tough, stoic, and unyielding. But the truth is: gentleness and sensitivity are not the opposite of strength—they’re the foundation of it. And...
by Jason Mellard | Jul 19, 2024 | Blog
A belief of separateness from masculinity is a primary driver of same-sex attractions. As a boy, I had an out-of-body experience during a father-son activity meant to bring connection. The “wrestling” he initiated ended in me laying on my back pinned between his...
